A while ago, I wrote a series on how to feel beautiful. That was a set of articles that was geared toward women.
However, I think that there are many guys out there that are in need of feeling good about the way they look. I was pretty sure that you men aren’t going to click on a title about feeling beautiful. For that reason, I have chosen to write a different series of articles that will help both men and women find ways to feel good about their appearance.
I’ve already written a general post of challenges you can take that will help you learn to like yourself.
Learning to like the way you look as a couple
Today, I want to talk about the things you and your spouse can do together to feel sexy. Part of being sexually satisfied is tied to how you see yourself when being intimate with your lover. When you like what you see, you will feel more satisfied than if you hate what you see.
How can you possibly feel free enough to express yourself sexually if you are self-conscious the entire time.
I put together some ideas that will help you to feel sexy with your spouse. What better way to grow in confidence about your looks than to engage in intimacy with the one that loves you the most?
Get in front of the mirror together
Maybe you don’t feel that great about the way you look on your own, but gazing into a mirror with your lover changes your perspective. Take the time to look at each other in front of a mirror while you are dressed, as well as during intimate times.
Using mirrors during love making is a great way to feel sexier. Seeing yourself engaged with your spouse will give you a huge confidence boost.
When you see your nakedness tangled up in your lover’s nakedness, it can be a major turn on.
Pairing visions of yourself with physical pleasure will train your brain to feel turned on by seeing yourself.
Cast the right glow with lighting
The right lighting has a lot to do with my ability to feel comfortable. Too harsh of a light will distract me, and when it is not bright enough, I am equally as distracted. While I realize that my light sensitivity is not shared by all, what I do know is that the right lighting does amazing things for your body.
In my bedroom, I have two strands of white Christmas lights. I find that these lights cast the perfect romantic glow in the room.
Think about it this way. Every photographer out there uses lighting to their advantage. It softens out imperfections and makes skin look perfect.
You can immediately feel better about the way you look when the lighting is right.
Take lots of pictures
I know you are probably tired of the number of selfies you see on your Facebook feed. However, selfies can really help you to feel sexy. Who doesn’t feel good after seeing a picture of themselves where they look awesome?